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Dear Wolves in Sheeps Clothing

Dear Wolves in Sheep’s Clothing,

I will endearingly refer to you as “Wolves in Sheeps Clothing” because if the shoe fits….  What you meant for evil, the Lord meant for good.  By evil, I mean coveting my family dynamics, lying, using your position to invade my family, and preying on the mental illnesses of others.  As we say in the south “bless your hearts.”  I mean God love you, you tried.  You didn’t just try once, but you tried twice.  Then, you abused your position by trying a third time.

Guys, you are winners, now aren’t you?  I know you are a family of avid sports and it must suck to lose so badly to a “non-sporty” person like me.  Dang it for you…just dang it.  It must be a sad day for you because you just couldn’t take our son from us.  Oh, you tried…with all your shiny things and the money you threw at him.  For a brief moment, he was a kid who liked the shiny things.  Then, he began seeing things that you both didn’t want him to see.  The Lord shines Light on ALL darkness.  What darkness you live in.

I can honestly say, he is pretty awesome but he is mine.  I mean, from before the Lord created the Earth, He knew each and every one of my children.  If you knew Him like I know Him, you would get that but you clearly don’t.  Maybe one day you will.

Instead of trying to hurt us, you could’ve practiced what God talks about in His Word.  If you need some help in that area, I am happy to send you a Bible with highlighted verses.  Pretty much all of it will be highlighted because the Word is His love story to His children.  I, and my family, are His children.  Are you?

The Lord knew what He was doing when he placed your 2 perfect children in your home through birth.  He knew what He was doing when he placed 3 imperfect children in my home through birth and 4 imperfect children through the beauty of adoption.  The only Perfect Person to ever grace this Earth was Jesus Himself.  You and your husband are not Jesus.  You have tried to be, but again, you were foiled.

I am truly sorry that your token child (aka my child) is no longer allowed to associate with you because of your epically poor decisions, lies, deceit, and lack of belief in who God is.  You are completely missing out on the beauty of who this child is and what he stands for.

It must be hard raising kids who do no wrong but I can see now that the apples do not fall far from the perfect tree they were created in.  Ya know, I always wondered what it was like to be God, Himself, I should have asked you before I booted you out of our lives.  Geez, I could have found all the answers.

I am so glad that you are using your “name” to further the Kingdom by truly and completely living the lives of wolves in sheeps clothing. As talked about in Matthew 7:15-23.

Beware of false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit.  A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit.  Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.  So then, by their fruit you will recognize them. Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of My Father in heaven.  Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name drive out demons and perform many miracles? Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you workers of lawlessness!’

Aw, you play the part.  Your family’s family has all established a church and you are solid, to the naked undiscerning eye.  Isn’t your church the one that experienced a fracture?  Were you a part of that?  Wouldn’t surprise me.  Maybe I could do some asking around.  Yet, you are one of those people who are sitting in the pew believing you are saved, but never had a salvation experience.

That’s sad.

I hope that you become aware of that and that you can know the true love of a Savior.  That salvation does not come from works but from grace.  I saw you way back when you eyeballed my son when he was 6 and I ignored it.  Stupid me.  He isn’t a prize to be won.  He is MY son and MY son alone.  I simply allowed him to grace your presence because I want everyone to know how amazing he is.  Sad you won’t ever see that now.

I know you read my blog, see us at games, shake your troubled head at his “misfortune” of parents but that is as close as you will ever get to him.  He is wise beyond his years and he sees so much more than you ever gave him credit for.

You have truly allowed Scripture to JUMP off the pages in Matthew 7:1-6.

“Do not judge, or you will be judged.  For with the same judgment you pronounce, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.  Why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but fail to notice the beam in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ while there is still a beam in your own eye? You hypocrite! First take the beam out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. Do not give dogs what is holy; do not throw your pearls before swine. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces.”

I do not believe I have never EVER had your feet under my table.  As much as I like to have people over, who are honest and good, I guess my spirit knew that you and your spouse were neither of those things.  It was my folly that I even allowed you to be a small part of my precious son’s life.  I’m thankful the Lord has erased his memory of you and what little may be left, you have taught him (and me) some valuable lessons.

You have taught me about judging others without knowing the FULL context of their lives.  You, wolves, will also be judged.  Good luck with that.  This time has taught us to be mindful of the plank in our eyes and to adjust, pray, ask forgiveness, forgive, and show mercy without judging the speck in your and your husband’s eye.

The Lord protected us from your invasion and harm.  He shielded us with a hedge of protection from the angels above.  Honestly, I did want to seek revenge and I plotted that revenge out, in detail, in my head.  Today, I stand on Truth.  Exodus 14:14 “The Lord will fight my battles.  I simply have to be still.”

Dear Wolves in Sheep's Clothing

Girl (and husband), you better watch it cause He is on our side, I am heeding His voice of being still, and He will judge your actions.  There is nothing I can do that will hold a candle to His judgement.  I’m so glad for that.

I wanted you both to suffer the pain and loss that I suffered.  You will never know that but again, what little you know does not compare to the JOY He has brought after the darkness.  He has brought peace, understanding, knowledge, wisdom, and a stronger family unit than ever before.  It is sad you may never experience that.

Glad you are OUT of our lives,

Brandi

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