Every child has moments of distraction, energy, and big emotions but for some, these behaviors go beyond typical development. October is ADHD Awareness Month, and it’s the perfect time to talk about what ADHD really looks like in children and how early understanding can change everything.
What ADHD Looks Like in Kids
ADHD symptoms can vary, but they usually fall into three categories: inattentive, hyperactive-impulsive, or a combined type.
Here are some common signs parents and teachers may notice:
Inattentive Behaviors
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Struggles to stay focused or follow multi-step directions
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Frequently loses things (homework, jackets, toys)
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Seems to “zone out” during conversations
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Avoids tasks that require long periods of focus
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Makes careless mistakes despite trying hard
Hyperactive-Impulsive Behaviors
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Constant movement like fidgeting, tapping, running, or climbing
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Talks excessively or interrupts frequently
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Has trouble waiting their turn
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Acts before thinking (impulsive decisions or comments)
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Struggles with transitions or sitting still
Not every child with ADHD is hyperactive. There are some are quiet daydreamers who slip under the radar. That’s why awareness matters.
The Emotional Side
Children with ADHD often feel misunderstood. They may hear “stop it,” “pay attention,” or “why can’t you just focus?” more times than they can count. Over time, these repeated corrections can chip away at self-esteem.
They don’t need shame. In reality, they need support, structure, and someone who believes in them.
Early Help Changes Everything
When ADHD is recognized early, children can learn tools that help them thrive:
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Therapy to build emotional regulation and coping skills
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Routines that reduce overwhelm
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Positive reinforcement to strengthen confidence
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Collaboration with schools for accommodations or support
Faith and Encouragement
Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.” Every child has unique wiring and purpose. With guidance and love, they can flourish exactly as God made them. At Circle of Hope Counseling Services, we help families understand ADHD with compassion and faith. Together, we create strategies that support both the child and the parent because thriving starts with understanding. 💙
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