A Diagnosis Does Not Define You
As a therapist, I’ve had so many clients walk into my office carrying the weight of multiple diagnoses—some given by different providers, some self-diagnosed through online research, and some that may have been true at one point but are no longer relevant. It’s frustrating because these are people, not a collection of labels on a piece of paper.
Some individuals can brush off a list of mental health diagnoses, while others cling to them, wearing them like a heavy jacket—sometimes even ten jackets—layered on because that’s what they’ve been told they are. But when we sit down together and actually walk through the diagnostic criteria from the DSM-5-TR, many come to realize they don’t meet the criteria for certain diagnoses at all. Instead, they may have two conditions that overlap, or when combined, form a different, more accurate diagnosis.
This is why I believe in simplifying whenever possible. I always err on the side of the most minor diagnosis until we’ve worked together long enough to understand what’s really going on. A primary diagnosis, with a possible secondary, creates space for healing instead of overwhelm.
Now, let me be clear—I’m not a medical doctor, and this doesn’t apply to medical conditions. Always consult with your primary care physician. But here’s the key: don’t just let them speak at you. Engage in conversation. You are the expert on you, and you should always advocate for your health.
At the end of the day, a diagnosis is just one small part of who you are. You are beautifully and wonderfully made. Yes, we all have struggles, quirks, and imperfections, but those don’t define us. Instead, they can be used to educate, foster understanding, and extend grace to ourselves and others.
So let’s be kind. You never truly know what someone else is carrying. The world is messy, and life is hard, but there is beauty in the ashes. And no matter where you are in your journey—you are okay. You are enough. Just as you are.
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