How the Body Keeps the Score: Listening to What Your Body Is Trying to Say
Have you ever felt like your body was reacting to something even when your mind couldn’t quite explain it? A racing heart, tight chest, sudden exhaustion, or a stomach that flips for no reason—these are all ways your body might be trying to communicate that something unresolved is still lingering beneath the surface. Trauma doesn’t just live in our memories—it lives in our bodies. This is How the Body Keeps the Score.
The phrase “the body keeps the score” comes from Dr. Bessel van der Kolk’s groundbreaking work on trauma. His research confirms what many people experience daily: your body remembers what your mind tries to forget. Even if you can’t recall every detail of a traumatic experience, your nervous system often responds as though you’re still in danger. This can lead to chronic anxiety, panic attacks, pain, digestive issues, or even autoimmune problems.
Unresolved Trauma
Unresolved trauma can trigger a constant state of hypervigilance. Your body stays on high alert, always bracing for the next blow. You might overreact to small stressors, withdraw emotionally, or feel completely numb. These reactions aren’t signs of weakness—they are survival mechanisms. Your body adapted to protect you, but now it needs permission to rest.
God created our bodies with incredible design and purpose. Psalm 139:14 reminds us, “I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” This includes our brain chemistry, our nervous system, and even our stress response. He doesn’t condemn us for our trauma responses—He gently calls us into healing.
Healing starts with awareness. If your body is holding onto trauma, it’s not betraying you—it’s asking you to pay attention.
At Circle of Hope Counseling Services, we recognize the deep connection between emotional and physical well-being. In therapy, we help clients become more aware of how trauma lives in the body and how to gently unwind that tension through grounding techniques, breathwork, somatic awareness, and faith-based practices.
Practical Tips to Support the Body After Trauma:
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Practice grounding: Try placing your feet flat on the floor and focusing on what you can see, hear, and feel. This brings your mind back to the present.
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Breathwork and prayer: Deep, intentional breathing combined with prayer calms the nervous system and invites God’s peace into your body.
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Gentle movement: Stretching, walking, or yoga can help release stored tension and increase body awareness.
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Be kind to yourself: Don’t push past your limits. Listen to your body and honor its signals without judgment.
Faith-Based Encouragement:
Jesus understands pain—not just emotional, but physical. He bore it all on the cross. When you feel overwhelmed by your body’s reactions, remember that you are not alone. God is present in every heartbeat, every breath, every moment of unrest. He’s not asking you to push through alone—He’s inviting you to rest in Him.
💛 If you’re navigating life’s hard places and need a safe space to heal, grow, or just breathe—Circle of Hope Counseling Services is here for you.
We offer trauma-informed, faith-filled therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
📞 Reach out today to schedule your first session (KY residents only) or learn more: Circle of Hope Counseling Services.
You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Hope starts here.
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