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Be the Light: 5 Ways to Make a Difference Today

Brandi Crum, MA, LMFT

Be the Light: 5 Ways to Make a Difference Today

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Suicide doesn’t just steal lives. In reality, it shatters families, ripples through communities, and leaves behind questions without answers. For too long, the subject has been pushed into the shadows. But silence only fuels shame. Together, we can change that. Suicide prevention doesn’t belong to professionals alone. It belongs to all of us. You can be a light in someone’s darkness today.

Here are five practical ways to start:

1. Learn the Warning Signs

Knowledge is power (one of my favorite phrases). When you recognize the signs of suicide risk, you’re better equipped to step in with compassion. Some red flags include:

  • Talking about feeling hopeless, trapped, or like a burden

  • Withdrawal from family, friends, and activities once enjoyed

  • Sudden changes in mood, sleep, or behavior

  • Increased use of alcohol or drugs

  • Talking about death, dying, or wanting to disappear

You don’t have to have all the answers. Simply noticing, asking, and listening without judgment can be life-saving.

2. Donate to Organizations Making a Difference

Your financial support fuels prevention programs, crisis lines, and outreach efforts. Even a small monthly gift helps organizations like the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP), The Trevor Project, or local crisis centers continue their critical work.

3. Volunteer Your Time

Sometimes the greatest gift is your presence. Many organizations need volunteers for events, support groups, or community outreach. Whether you walk in an awareness event, hand out resources, or serve on a hotline, your time matters.

4. Advocate for Mental Health

Your voice is powerful. Write to your representatives about improving mental health access. Support school programs that educate about suicide prevention. Speak up in your church or community group. Advocacy chips away at the stigma that keeps so many silent.

5. Share Resources

You never know who might be scrolling at just the right moment. Post the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline on your social media. Share mental health articles, podcasts, or your own story of hope. Every share is a reminder that help exists and no one has to walk alone.

🌱 A Final Word

Scripture reminds us: “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” (John 1:5). When you choose to learn, give, volunteer, advocate, and share, you shine light into someone’s darkness. You may never know the full impact of your actions, but one small step today could save a life tomorrow.

💛 If you’re navigating life’s hard places and need a safe space to heal, grow, or just breathe remember that Circle of Hope Counseling Services is here for you.

We offer trauma-informed, faith-filled therapy for individuals, couples, and families.

📞 Reach out today to schedule your first session (KY residents only) or learn more: Circle of Hope Counseling Services.

You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Hope starts here.

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What to Say (and Not Say) to Someone Who’s Suicidal

Brandi Crum, MA, LMFT

What to say (and Not Say) to Someone Who’s Suicidal

what to say and not to say to someone who is suicidal

It’s one of the hardest conversations you’ll ever have when you begin realizing someone you love might be thinking about ending their life. You may fear saying the wrong thing, making it worse, or crossing a line.

But here’s the truth: you can’t put the thought in their head by asking. In fact, your willingness to speak up could save their life.

1. Start by Asking Directly

Don’t dance around it. Use clear, compassionate language:

  • “I’ve noticed you’ve seemed really down lately, and I’m worried about you. Are you thinking about hurting yourself?”
  • “It sounds like you’re going through a lot. Have you had any thoughts about ending your life?
  • Avoid vague phrases like “You’re not thinking of doing anything crazy, are you?” This is because they can shut down honesty and add shame.

2. Listen Without Fixing

If they open up, your job isn’t to solve their problems in that moment. Remember, it’s simply to listen.

  • “That sounds really heavy. I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way.”
  • “Thank you for trusting me enough to tell me.”
  • “I’m here with you. You don’t have to go through this alone.”

Avoid:

  • “You just need to pray more.”
  • “Other people have it worse.”
  • “But you have so much to be grateful for.”

These responses, even if well-intentioned, can feel dismissive and isolating.

3. Offer Support, Not Just Encouragement

Encouragement is good but action is better.

  • “Can I stay with you for a while?”
  • “Would you like me to go with you to talk to a counselor or pastor?”
  • “Let’s call a crisis line together so you don’t have to do it alone.”

If they’re in immediate danger, stay with them and call 911 or a local crisis line 988.

4. Follow Up

One conversation is not enough. Check in regularly, even if they seem “better.” A text, a call, or a simple “thinking of you” can remind them they matter.

Gentle Truth

You don’t have to have all the answers. You just have to be willing to enter the dark with someone and remind them there’s still light and that you’re willing to help them find it.

National Resources (U.S.)

  • 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988
  • Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
  • Veterans Crisis Line: Call 988, then press 1

If you’re outside the U.S., you can find international hotlines here: Find a helpline

Scripture to Carry:

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” Galatians 6:2

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A Pause for LA – Honoring a Life, Raising Awareness

Brandi C

A Pause for LA – Honoring a Life, Raising Awareness

Before we continue with our journey, I need to pause. This is A Pause for LA – Honoring a Life, Raising Awareness.

Because life isn’t just about what happens to us—it’s about what happens around us. It’s about who we walk alongside. And sometimes… who we lose.

On June 19, 2018, my friend LA died by suicide.
Her absence left a silence that still echoes.

And while my blog series has been about the road through chronic illness, faith, and motherhood—I would be doing her, and so many others, a disservice if I didn’t stop to say this out loud:

Suicide is real. It’s devastating. And it’s not the whole story.

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🕯️ For LA

LA was light. She was fierce, funny, and loved deeply. Also, she was human, she struggled, and she mattered.

So, so much.

If you didn’t know her, you missed out on someone truly extraordinary. And if you did know her, then you know the hole her absence left behind.

I will not let her be remembered only for the way she died. LA deserves to be remembered for the way she lived.

💔 The Truth About Suicide

  • Suicide is the second leading cause of death for people ages 10–34.

  • Most people who die by suicide don’t want to die—they want the pain to stop.

  • Mental illness is not a character flaw or a moral failure.

  • Asking for help is not weakness. It’s strength.

  • Talking about suicide doesn’t cause it. Silence does.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
— Psalm 34:18

🧡 If You’re Struggling

You are not a burden. An you are not beyond help. You are not too broken.

Remember, you are loved.
And you are needed.
You are not alone.

Please, please reach out:

📞 Call or Text 988 – Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
💬 Chat online at 988lifeline.org
📱 Reach out to a friend, a counselor, a pastor—someone you trust.

You don’t have to carry this alone.

💛 If You’ve Lost Someone

To those who’ve lost someone to suicide:
There are no perfect words. No quick comforts.
But there is space here for your grief. And there is no shame in your sorrow.

Your person mattered.
Your grief matters.

And you are not alone either.

🕊️ Heartbeat Moment

We’ll continue H’s story soon. But for today, I just want to say:
If you’re hurting—talk.
And if someone crosses your mind—reach out.
If you see someone struggling—show up.

I believe in a God who is bigger than all of this.
But I also believe in a church, a community, a world that must rise up to meet the hurting—before it’s too late.

This post is for LA.
For the ones we’ve lost.
And for the ones still here.
For the hope that whispers: you are not alone.

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”
— John 1:5

💛 If you’re navigating life’s hard places and need a safe space to heal, grow, or just breathe—Circle of Hope Counseling Services is here for you.

We offer trauma-informed, faith-filled therapy for individuals, couples, and families.

📞 Reach out today to schedule your first session (KY residents only) or learn more: Circle of Hope Counseling Services.

You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Hope starts here.

 

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