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Trust the Period

Brandi Crum, MA, LMFT

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Trust the Period

There are times in life when God says, “It’s done.”
A relationship ends.
A door closes.
A chapter finishes.
And yet—we still stand there, confused, clutching the pen, trying to rewrite what God already finished.

“Never put a question mark where the Lord put a period.”

We ask:
But what if I tried harder?
What if I misunderstood?
What if it wasn’t supposed to end like that?

But here’s the truth:
When God ends something, it’s not to punish you. It’s to protect, redirect, and refine you.

Let God’s Period Be Enough

God sees the full picture. He knows what’s ahead.
And sometimes the greatest act of trust is not in the open door—but in walking away from the closed one.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”
— Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)

It’s not easy.
We like answers. We crave closure.
But faith often asks us to release the pen—and believe that God knows how the story ends.

A Gentle Challenge

📝 Try this: What are you still questioning that God already resolved? A breakup? A job loss? A redirection? Write it down. Then write a prayer of surrender next to it.

It doesn’t have to make sense right now.
It just has to be surrendered.

Let the period be enough.
Let God write the next sentence.
Trust that the Author of your story is faithful—and still working.

💛 If you’re navigating life’s hard places and need a safe space to heal, grow, or just breathe—Circle of Hope Counseling Services is here for you.

We offer trauma-informed, faith-filled therapy for individuals, couples, and families.

📞 Reach out today to schedule your first session (KY residents only) or learn more: Circle of Hope Counseling Services.

You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Hope starts here.

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The Day He Ran –Our Beach Miracle

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The Day He Ran – Our Beach Miracle

I can still feel the sand under my feet and I can still remember The Day He Ran. Our Beach Miracle.

The sun was setting, the breeze was just right, and we were finally on a family vacation, sort of, after what felt like a lifetime in hospitals.

H sat on a blanket, watching the waves, surrounded by siblings and snacks.

He hadn’t walked unassisted in almost a year.

We brought his wagon to the beach to help transport him around. We expected him to stay seated.

But then…

He Stood

After much sitting and playtime in the sand and the water. I quickly carried him up the beach, at dusk, and sat him on a beach towel. He was all snuggled up as the sun was setting and I was getting a few quick videos and pictures.

Then.

He stood.

And not just stood.

He ran.

Across the sand, toward the ocean. His body moving like it remembered how, even though it shouldn’t have. I stood in holy awe as my child, who had to relearn everything, ran straight into the water like he’d never been sick.

It wasn’t just steps. It was a miracle.

“Against all hope, Abraham in hope believed…”
— Romans 4:18

No One Can Tell Me Otherwise

Doctors can say what they want.
Science can shrug.
But I know what I saw.

I saw God.

That day, I saw healing in motion.

I saw the fire in his eyes, the joy in his shout, the water splash around his feet.

In that moment, I saw the moment heaven touched earth for my son.

Heartbeat Moment

We still face hard days. Flare-ups. Setbacks. Fears.

But that moment reminds me what’s possible.
God doesn’t always heal the way we ask but sometimes?
Sometimes He does.

And I’ll never stop praising Him for the day my boy ran into the ocean.

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Forgiving Yourself: A Path to Grace

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Forgiving Yourself: A Path to Grace

Forgiving Yourself: A Path to Grace

We often talk about the power of forgiveness—how freeing it is to release bitterness toward others. But what happens when the person you need to forgive is staring back at you in the mirror? Forgiving Yourself: A Path to Grace.

Self-forgiveness can feel like the hardest form of grace to extend. It’s one thing to believe that God can forgive you. It’s another to believe you can forgive yourself. Maybe you’ve said the wrong thing, made a mistake you deeply regret, or failed someone you love. Maybe you carry the weight of what-ifs and should-haves like a backpack full of bricks.

Here’s the truth: we all fall short. Romans 3:23 reminds us, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” That includes you. And me. But the story doesn’t end there—because the same grace that saved you is the grace that invites you into healing.

Forgiving yourself isn’t about forgetting what happened. It’s about releasing yourself from the prison of shame and allowing God’s truth to replace the lies that say you’re unworthy of love, healing, or a second chance.

The Healing Power of Self-Forgiveness

When we hold onto guilt and self-condemnation, it affects our mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. Unforgiveness toward ourselves can lead to anxiety, depression, chronic stress, low self-worth, and damaged relationships.

But when we allow God to enter those broken spaces, we find freedom.

At Circle of Hope Counseling Services, we often work with clients who are carrying silent guilt—some for things outside their control, others for decisions made under pressure or in pain. Part of the therapeutic process is helping individuals recognize that healing doesn’t come from pretending something didn’t happen—it comes from telling the truth and letting God meet you in it.

Practical Steps to Begin Forgiving Yourself:

  1. Name what you’re holding onto. Write it down or speak it aloud. Clarity is the first step to release.

  2. Challenge shame with truth. What does God say about you? What would you say to a friend in the same situation?

  3. Seek therapy and support. Sometimes we need help untangling the roots of shame and guilt. That’s okay—healing was never meant to be done alone.

  4. Accept that you’re human. Mistakes are part of growth. You are still worthy of love and kindness.

  5. Pray through the pain. Ask God to help you see yourself through His eyes—a beloved child, not a failure.

Faith-Based Encouragement

Jesus didn’t go to the cross for perfect people. He came for the broken, the weary, the guilt-ridden, and the burdened. His grace is not limited by your past. Isaiah 1:18 reminds us, “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow.” When you confess your wrongs to Him, He doesn’t hesitate to forgive—and you are not disqualified from forgiving yourself either.

Give yourself the same compassion you would offer someone else. You are not defined by your worst moment. You are redeemed, loved, and being restored, day by day.

💛 If you’re navigating life’s hard places and need a safe space to heal, grow, or just breathe—Circle of Hope Counseling Services is here for you.

We offer trauma-informed, faith-filled therapy for individuals, couples, and families.

📞 Reach out today to schedule your first session (KY residents only) or learn more: Circle of Hope Counseling Services.

You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Hope starts here.

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Daily Inspiration by Corrie Ten Boom

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Daily Inspiration by Corrie Ten Boom

Corrie Ten Boom is an inspiration to many, and her life is a testament to faith, resilience, and the power of forgiveness. She and her family risked everything to hide Jews from the Nazis during World War II. Sadly, this ultimately is the leading to their arrest and imprisonment in concentration camps. Despite the unimaginable suffering she endured, Corrie clung to her faith in God. She actively was witnessing His faithfulness even in the darkest circumstances.

It’s difficult to comprehend the life she was forced to live—watching her loved ones die, experiencing the cruelty of Ravensbrück, and enduring physical and emotional torment. Yet, through it all, she remained steadfast in her trust in God. Her story is a humbling reminder that even in the face of devastation, God’s love and providence never fail.

One of the most powerful aspects of Corrie’s story is her unwavering commitment to forgiveness. After the war, she traveled the world, sharing her testimony and speaking about the importance of forgiving even the unforgivable. One of the most striking moments in her life came when she was approached by a former Nazi guard from Ravensbrück. This guard has since found Christ. In that moment, she had to make the choice to either hold onto her pain or extend the same grace God had given her. Through His strength, she chose to forgive.

Forgiveness is not always easy, but Corrie’s life proves that it is possible. Her story should inspire us all to trust God through hardship. Also, to love unconditionally, and to forgive even when it seems impossible. Her words and example continue to remind us that no pit is so deep that God’s love is not deeper still.

💛 If you’re navigating life’s hard places and need a safe space to heal, grow, or just breathe—Circle of Hope Counseling Services is here for you.

We offer trauma-informed, faith-filled therapy for individuals, couples, and families.

📞 Reach out today to schedule your first session (KY residents only) or learn more: Circle of Hope Counseling Services.

You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Hope starts here.

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Mental Illness and Ending the Stigma

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Mental Illness and Ending the Stigma

Mental Illness and Ending the Stigma

Mental Illness and Ending the Stigma. I am also not embarrassed to talk about my mental health journey. I have struggled with it since…well, for as long as I can remember. Does that mean I had a horrible childhood? Nope, quite the opposite. Does that mean I don’t love Jesus? Nope, I have a very strong relationship. It means I have a story.

I sometimes use my story, parts of it, to help others because I never want anyone to feel alone. You need to know that God sees you and captures every tear you cry (Psalm 56:8). With Him, you are not alone. You are enough, you are worthy, and you are loved by the King of Kings.

💛 If you’re navigating life’s hard places and need a safe space to heal, grow, or just breathe—Circle of Hope Counseling Services is here for you.

We offer trauma-informed, faith-filled therapy for individuals, couples, and families.

📞 Reach out today to schedule your first session (KY residents only) or learn more: Circle of Hope Counseling Services.

You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Hope starts here.

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